In the beginning

Mr IVF and I talked about having children pre marriage and how we thought it would be nice but if it couldn't happen it wouldn't be the be all and end all of everything.  We weren't desperate to have children and thought it would be best to just go with the flow. So, in 2005 I stopped taking the pill.

In mid 2008, after a few years of no offspring Mr IVF went to do a sperm sample. A few weeks
later the results were in and it wasn't looking good (very low sperm count).  I felt for him, he soldiered on and his mother suggested we get the IVF ball rolling. No pressure then.